February 2025 Newsletter

February Newsletter: Happy Black History Month!
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Rest as Resistance

Join Naajee, supervisor of DAP’s Victim Survivor and Youth Programs, as she talks about Black love and joy in the family system, the ways in which Black children lean toward healing and self-expression, and how kids can help us develop the important practice of slowing down.

“Instead of seeing the kid who stops and blows the dandelion as a nuisance to our destination, which is the car, the more we can see that in those moments that child is trying to teach us all how to slow down, how to notice, and how to be present. We can’t heal when we’re not present in this moment, and with the people that we’re with. If we’re not present in that connection, we’ve missed pieces of the gifts that each of us brings to the space to give to one another. That’s imperative in the Black community—that sense of community and collective and how we each have something to offer, and that offering is never too little or too big.” -Naajee Dennis

Samuel Simmons

Community leader Samuel Simmons Jr. has a long and successful career as a counselor and behavioral consultant and developed and managed a curriculum for African American men and boys aimed at promoting healthy and nonviolent relationships. He recently released a book called: Just Sam: A Black Man’s Journey to Healing and hosts a Community Empowerment Through Black Men Healing Conference. Join Naajee (Victim Survivor and Youth Program Supervisor) and Amirthini (DAP’s Executive Director) in this poignant interview with Sam where he speaks on compassionate accountability, historical trauma, and what steps must be taken to center healing in the Black community.

“Healing, in the short term, is one of the most painful things under the sun, because now I gotta be fully transparent with myself…and you’ll find that when you get to the other side, you’ll think, ‘I wish I’d done this sooner.’”

The next Community Empowerment Through Black Men Healing Conference will occur on June 26th-27th 2025 at the St. Paul College. You can find Sam’s book on Amazon below.

Hindered Help: African American Partner Violence Victims


Why are Black women 2.5 times more likely to be murdered by their intimate partners than white women?


Why are Black women murdered five years younger than the national average?


Why are Black women more likely to remain with their abusive partner?


“Professor, social worker, and proud African American woman Bernardine Y. Waller asks why black people are so much more likely to experience domestic violence, to stay with abusive partners, and to be murdered by an intimate partner, compared to white people. She discusses the cultural norms in the black community and stereotypical attitudes of law enforcement toward black people that contribute to this disproportionate statistic. Waller outlines the challenges of misunderstandings and a lack of information among emergency shelter workers, medical professionals, and community leaders that result in a deficiency of services and support for African Americans. She calls for a greater understanding from all those in these positions, to stop, ask, think, and listen to enable real support for black abuse victims.” (DVSN)


What if I called the police, and they actually saw me as a vulnerable woman who really needed their protection?


What if I could find shelter in the shelter system—a place where I was valued, understood and fully supported?

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“I came up for air a couple of hours into working on [the film and] realized that really what I was writing about was a very particular defense mechanism that I was taught as a Black man growing up in America, about how to keep myself safe, and how to navigate systemic racism. And that particular defense mechanism was making sure that the powerful white people around me were comfortable.”

DAP envisions a community free of domestic abuse where families experience healthy, safe and equal relationships. Our mission is to build communities free from violence by providing holistic healing for every member of the family.


We are seeking new board members who align with our mission and vision. We are eager to work with folks who are interested in using their voice to be an ambassador for DAP in their communities. We are hoping to engage people from different backgrounds and work experiences to continue to help us ensure access to healing for all.


If interested in joining our board, please reach out to governance@mndap.org for more information. We look forward to having you on our board!

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